Day 62
16th September 2011
One enviable trait I notice among successful people is their ability to sincerely connect with people. They are people oriented. `Connecting' with people is different from merely knowing and being friendly with people. When you meet such people you will know that they care for you. When you speak to them, they `listen' to you and not merely `hear' you. They are emotionally involved and care for you. You will feel your comfort level when you seek their help. You will realise this by their promptness and the quality of their help. When you share your emotions with them, they vibrate your feelings.
They will remember you on important occasions. When they promise something, they will remember to do it without any follow up. They are there if you want a shoulder to weep. They are there when you want to share your exciting moments of your life with them. They are there when you want someone to understand your feelings.
Can you evaluate how far you connect with people whom you know? Can you have a strategy to improve on this aspect of your personality?
N C Sridharan
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